The aggrievement of the anointed.
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A great deal of lefty outrage has spluttered to life today because Erick Erickson called Cindy Sheehan a "media whore." Of course, this is precisely what the woman is, if one believes Wikipedia's assertion that the term encompasses "those who use their access to [media] outlets to promote a particular commercial or ideological message." One is under no compulsion to believe anything at all in Wikipedia, but it has this one correct. It is also correct to apply the term to Ms Sheehan, who is not merely expressing public grief over her son's death -- for which no person of ordinary compassion could condemn her -- but also railing against American "imperialism" and the state of Israel; and declaring America a one-party state saved from fascism by the internet(!). Oh, and the 2004 elections were, apparently, fraudulent. We may feel empathy or pity as it strikes us for the circumstances that brought Ms Sheehan to utter these absurdities: but we are under no compulsion to respect them, nor to call them anything but what they are.
The reaction to this critique of Sheehan martyr recalls nothing so much as the reaction to critiques of Corrie martyr -- a thing into which I have some insight. In both cases, we have mediagenic women whose profound feeling translates into activism. They are, somehow, both sacrosanct and exempt from all ill words: and those who deliver them anyway are denounced as the wretched of the earth by an irate, incoherent left. Now, let it be said that Ms Sheehan is not the equal of Ms Corrie. She is not dead, for starters, nor is she a de facto terror sympathizer. She gets credit for this much, and rightly so: the modern left in America has not had such a virtuous heroine for some time.
What, then, is the reaction from that corner? It seems that anger deprives the average leftist of basic reading comprehension. Persons past high school, or with the ability to use the interweb, generally understand the difference between a "media whore" and a whore -- the latter being orders of magnitude more degrading, and something no person has, to my knowledge, ever accused Ms Sheehan of being. A whore is to a media whore as a dog is to a hot dog, or a rod is to a hot rod, or a widow is to a black widow. Adjective, context, metaphor: who doesn't know these things?
Steve Gilliard doesn't know.
Duncan Black doesn't know.
TBogg doesn't know.
Endless ranks of dKos commenters don't know.
The pity is that on some level, they do know. Once upon a time, the online left was extraordinarily familiar with the term "media whore." Have they forgotten? Does it matter? The line between ignorance and dishonesty is a thin one. That the outraged, foul-mouthed defenders of Ms Sheehan's honor, such as it is, who call Mr Erickson's place of work and threaten the safety of his very home, dance so easily across it tells us everything we need to know about them -- and the causes they hold dear.
....that Armando at dKos behaved in a forthright and honorable fashion in trying to squash the harrassment. I am appreciative.
Lefties saw how Malkin was able to get a secretary fired from her job for writing a truly asinine (and insulting) e-mail. They thought they saw an opening against Erick, which, thankfully, didn't exist.
The days of "everything is fair game" are slowly coming to the blogosphere. (My only suprise is that it's taken so long.)
Can we agree that the term "media whore" has a negative connotation? The first definition (not the one quoted) in Wikipedia says as much, and describes someone who seeks media attention for vanity purposes. Relying on a selective dictionary definition does not remove the highly derogatory roots of "media whore".
Ms. Sheehan's arguments are basically that 1) Bush lied to start the war in Iraq and that 2) we should get out of Iraq. Maybe this is naive, but how about if the Right attacked the actual message? I know you have arguments against both these points, so make them.
a secretary fired from her job
Should be "a secretary fired from his job." (Given that I have a male secretary, you'd think that I'd know better.)
Your above definition of "media whore" is so broad as to be meaningless.
Since Cindy Sheehan has called George W. Bush a mass murderer, several times, I'd say that calling someone a "whore" is rather mild by comparison. I'd just call Sheehan "acutely mentally ill" and leave it at that. The best reason for Bush to ignore her completely: what Sheehan needs desperately is psychiatric help, and Bush is not a psychiatrist.
... I'd be right there with you.
Are you going to check in with your thoughts on Israel giving "Palestine" back to its rightful owners? Ms. Sheehan has stated repeatedly that this is the other key (after getting out of Iraq) to stopping the killing.
Is she right?
Not quite so "forthright and honorable"
To media whores, who are unable to recognize their condition for what it is.
Not at all. It's a derogatory term for persons who are perceived to do those particular things. Seems pretty clear-cut to me.
I wouldn't contest that.
Sadly, as already demonstrated, those aren't Sheehan's only arguments by a long shot.
going over to Iraq to server in Bush's War?
Oh, sorry, I forget -- your kind doesn't feel the ordinary patriotism that might yearn for victory even in wars one opposes.
This didn't used to be much of a problem.
Anyway, since you've only left two comments on the site, and one of them was constructive, I'm not going to boot you for saying dumb things. But be warned: we welcome lefties here -- unless they're just here to shriek the shibboleths they mistake for wisdom.
Actually, alot of people have postulated that Israel's occupation of the West Bank and Gaza is at the crux of conflict between the Arab world and the West. There is (or at least was) some truth to that, but there are alot of other reasons for violence against the U.S. including our support of dictatorships and occupation of Arab lands. Of course, the Middle Eastern also has many issues unrelated to the U.S. which need to be sorted out among themselves.
It seems like Palestinians do have a claim on the West Bank and Gaza, though Israel has the right to hold those territories if necessary for its self-defense. I think it's a good thing that Israel is leaving Gaza, and I think it would be a good thing if they largely left the West Bank as well, with the exception of ceding some land to Israel in exchange for a transportation corridor for Palestinians.
For her bereavement at the loss of her son, Ms. Sheehan is due as much benefit of the doubt and personal respect and sympathy as we can individually afford her.
For her narcissistic demand that her grief bestows upon her the right to meet with the President of the United States a SECOND time (most of us will never have that opportunity, under any circumstances), for her willingness to accept any and all media and celebrity attention in the interest of obtaining said meeting, and for her outrageous and offensive statements uttered in the name of maintaining said media attention (think: Israel out of "Palestine"), Ms. Sheehan is due as much derision and condemnation as our individual consciences will allow, "media whore" being rather generous.
You will notice that I have made absolutely no mention of her stated views on Bush Administration policy and Iraq, and yet still the causes for derision far outweigh the causes for sympathy.
Liberals love to talk about conservatives having "squandered the world's goodwill after 9/11"...well, Ms. Sheehan is a textbook example of how to squander a nation's goodwill in the wake of her own personal tragedy. She could have elected to seek counseling for her grief and/or to pursue her political dialogue through the channels responsible, everyday Americans use, but she chose the media spotlight and selfish demands instead.
Ms. Sheehan, may fate forever place you last in line whenever you request an audience with a public official to air your grievances.
I think this war shows why we need to have mandatory service for all in the armed forces (or peace corp, or something) after high school.
Politicians wouldn't willie-nillie send folks off to war w/o plans for securing the peace, nor would the ignore the Powell Doctrine (whatever happened to that?) if more of their constituients had kids in the battle field.
I just think if we "stay the course" now, we're going to keep seeing more of the same. There has been a 100% increase in IED attacks on our troops since a year ago today. So if we "stay the course", there will be 100% more of them next year than now?
It's such a shame. We could have done it right.
I was going by the username "tenwords". I posted no profanity and violated none of the "comment posting rules". I also didn't receive an explanation as to why I was banned from commenting on this site. Here is the link to what I posted. Just wondering what the hysteria is all about.
you came into our house and subtlely accused us of racism. Gee wonder why you got banned.
What is it she's trying to tell the media in Crawford, then? From your link:
She told the audience of veterans from World War Two to today's war in Iraq, that the two main things she plans to tell the man she holds responsible for son Casey's death are "Quit saying that U.S. troops died for a noble cause in Iraq, unless you say, 'well, except for Casey Sheehan.' Don't you dare spill any more blood in Casey's name. You do not have permission to use my son's name."
"And the other thing I want him to tell me is 'just what was the noble cause Casey died for?' Was it freedom and democracy? Bullshit! He died for oil. He died to make your friends richer. He died to expand American imperialism in the Middle East. We're not freer here, thanks to your PATRIOT Act. Iraq is not free. You get America out of Iraq and Israel out of Palestine and you'll stop the terrorism," she exclaimed.
So her argument number 3 is that (along with the U.S. getting out of Iraq) Israel getting out of "Palestine", which would be the West Bank and Gaza, would stop terrorism. She's certainly not the first to think that the key to stopping terrorism is having Israel withdraw from the West Bank and Gaza. I would say there's more behind terrorism than that, including our support for the Saudi royal family, but it seems like her third argument would be less controversial than "Bush lied" and "let's get out of Iraq".
characterize the comment, the one that I was simply responding to? Surely, you are not condemning me and defending them. I didn't see that in the rules, insinuating that someone is biased, someone who has just admitted that they are biased by using an insulting nickname for Arabs.
trevino -
I think the analogy of "whore is to media whore as dog is to hot dog" is not quite apt. More accurately, "whore" is to "media whore" as "nazi" is to "soup nazi".
In either case, your point on the parsing of the phrase stands. And, parsing completed, you have failed to address the real issue.
The thing that makes Erick's characterization of Sheehan as a "media whore" offensive and rude is not anyone's sense that he is accusing her of having sex for money. It is the implication that she is exploiting the death of her son.
As I mentioned in my reply to Erick's post, I don't, and I doubt any of us do, know if Sheehan is sincere, callous, opportunistic, or insane in her actions. I also, personally, think that folks who have lost their children in similar situations get a pass.
Leave her be. She'll go away soon enough.
Cheers -
with the basic content of Armando's post, though I didn't read the commentators. Attack her claims not the woman. Blame the media for over focusing on her, don't blame her.
The quote is replete with much more than "Israel out of Palestine". At a glance, we have the following "arguments":
(1) No blood for oil.
(2) No war profiteering.
(3) No American imperialism.
(4) The PATRIOT Act is eeeeevil.
If I had just fallen off the back of the turnip truck I would not be able to tell this woman apart from the average poster on Democratic Underground. Stop trying to make out like she's some reasonable, moderate, sane critic of the war: she's not, and you know it.
...to the level of personal harrassment is unfortunate, to say the least, and puts the subject of mere name calling in perspective; I utterly reject it, and wish that those engaging in it are apprehended.
That said, I find this diary defending Erick's choice of phrasing a missed opportunity for RedState, whereas repudiating the more questionable part of the original entry would be an admirable call to keep high the bar for the level of discourse.
From where I come from, referring to someone's mother using any phrase containing the word "whore" is at best a display of classlessness. And to charge those who would take offense at the use of a phrase such as "media whore," in such a circumstance, of "manufactured outrage" strikes me as manufactured cluelessness. What's more, that the person doing this in the comments section of Erick's entry is retired military truly puzzles me. The defense of using such a phrase against the mother of a fallen fellow soldier, no matter what disagreements there may be with such a woman, does more disservice to the honor of the U.S. military, in my eyes, than anything I'm aware of Mrs. Sheehan having done.
Amos,
You wrote: It is the implication that she is exploiting the death of her son.
Ms Sheehan WOULD NOT be getting the media attention if she were not who she is or more accurately if her Son had not died in Iraq.
This isn't about meeting with Bush again. She knows it won't happen. Camping in Crawford and wanting a meeting are just the gimmicks to manipulate the media, plain and simple. Media manipulation is also an essential technique in campaigns and in presidencies (not just the current one). Ms. Sheehan did what she could to help John Kerry win last year, and no doubt she could write her Senators, but the net result of such attempts was and would be zero. She welcomes the media spotlight because that's how she is bringing attention to her cause.
My point concerns her intent, and the sincerity of her intent, both of which I doubt are knowable to Erick or Josh.
Cheers -
Let's be honest -- this woman is doing everything she can to get herself on tv. She is a media whore.
From the AP:
"On Friday, she released a 60-second television ad running on cable channels in the Crawford area the rest of the month. The $15,000 cost was paid for by Gold Star Families, a group Sheehan founded."
Gee, cheap cable commercials. Posts via Michael Moore's website. As Bush passes by in his motorcade, holding up a sign saying "Why do you make time for donors and not for me?" so she can be sure to make the news (and ignoring the fact that Bush, his deputy chief of staff, and his national security advisor all have met with her. There's no need for an apology.
However, whatever her orginal intent was she is currently drawing on her sons death. If she was not she would not be appearing in our newspapers and on our TV's.
"Adjective, context, metaphor: who doesn't know these things?"
Try grammar.
I know what a media whore is, everyone who remembers mediawhoresonline knows it too, and saying media whore in the form of a grieving mother is not even close to the use of media whore.
Trevino, you are trying to pull a quick one here (and referring to wikipdiea for justification, how trivial). Calling someone a "media whore" is one thing; but adding "in the form of a grieving mother", is quite beyond any line of decency.
I don't think the people attacking Erick are out of line at all. Erick Erickson deserves a very public and personal humiliation.
If this was a liberal blogger that'd said this, Fox News, WSJ, and the rest would be using "whore in the form of a grieving mother" as the statement which Erick uttered.
You said it, not us.
Erick does not deserve to be humiliated or harassed at work. He is exercising his right to free speech on a blog that he advises and supports with his resources and time. You don't like his post? Go play some where else.
but she has made a cold, calculated decision to use that status to further her own political ends. Read some of the crazy, outlandish comments she has made (although she's toned it down some for the MSM, this community has done a good job of collecting links to her prior statements). She has deliberately misstated the events of her last meeting with President Bush. She wanted to become a public figure -- her wish has come true. If she and her supporters can't stand the heat, she should get out of Texas.
I wish I had the command of the english language that Josh does.
I was over on DKos, being the sole defender of Erick's choice of words (handle: RSCorky). After Erick's 'apology' I felt abandoned...
..."If she and her supporters can't stand the heat, she should get out of Texas."
See, here's the thing. She can stand the heat, and she's not leaving before Bush does, and the same will go for many of her supporters. And Mrs. Sheehan is, most difinitely, rather smartly utilizing the media to the fullest advantage to get out her message. That is what those successful at bringing mass awareness to their campaigns do, be they lefties or righties or what have you; they are able to establish significant media leverage. The chagrin arising from the realization of Mrs. Sheehans success, I believe, is why she is being so roundly attacked ad hominem by those adverse to her message.
Yes, that's right: Because Mrs. Sheehan efforts at gaining mainstream and non-mainstream media coverage to speak out against this war have been successful, she is being attacked for that success. Kinda funny, when you think about it.
"Definitely." "Sheehan's." I hate it when I typo.
I also regret that I made it seem that I viewed all those who disagree with her message as resorting to ad hominem attacks. In fact, I do not.
I only now have seen that Erick has granted that his choice of words crossed the line. My argument, then, isn't with RedState, but with Trevino and those who continue to back the original phrasing.
how nuts Daily Kurse would have gone if Erick had said something along the lines of....I don't know...."Screw 'em"?
My objection, while not the one you are focused on, was not worded that way, nor over the top. There is a reasonable form of this objection to that language and general attitude, and of course I'd prefer you addressed the strongest form, as well as deal with any weaker objection. My objection is not hypocritical. It is an objection more from the center, from frankly a tacitus.org standard of discourse.
frankly, I'm not much for this "whore" metaphor we throw around so easily... whoring this and whoring that, blogs and diaries and oh what a general purpose concept, so useful!
It's pathetic... playing on a sexual morality frame for something wholly different.
I mean, I could say that Malkin was a "media whore"... but why bother... people have a right, in my book, to promote their ideologies, to talk to the press, and even to arrange events or even stunts to try to get press attraction.
It's part of how are system works and it's not bad.
Of course it's possible to defend attacking a person at the roots, at their reputation in general, and maligning that and their motives, etc, but why? Why bother? That doesn't answer any of the issues which, guess what, we all feel strongly about... not just Sheehan.
but lest I be banned after promising not to pursue this further in another thread... I was asked for this by yet another post specifically on a part of the presentation I objected to.
I think the point about Sheehan could be made without resorting to this overused cliche... but by all means, if you insist on it, it merely becomes a part of your presentation, and I think a sign of desperation if a mere citizen's opinions require this sort of language to discredit.
-pyrrho
Her claim is basically not, as some have suggested, a laundry list for the radical Left. She's been pretty specific that the conduct of this war from the outset has been conniving and pathetic:
"He's committed troops to war. They're over there sweltering. They're not equipped properly and the people of Iraq don't have any clean water; they don't have electricity to cool their houses down. Our troops are out there with their body armor and they shouldn't be there in the first place."
"And then he comes and takes a five-week vacation. I just hope this is putting a little crimp in it for him," she said. "I'm never going to be able to fully enjoy another vacation because he's put a permanent hole in my life."
assuming she is a leftist from the git-go (I don't know, I have not followed this particularly closely, but I've read that she voted for Bush in 2004, but ignoring that possibility)
given that: what do you expect from people not inclined to support the war as their family members die? To get suddenly more supportive? Why?
You should expect this, it's a cause of war. I honestly don't know why you would not expect this. Just as if someone does support the war and loses their son, I doubt they should be expected to be really accepting of arguments the death was a waste.
It's perspective and predictable. I don't think a person needs to be slurred as a result of their strong positions, per se, it's enough to discredit their position if you can.
are they not just media whoredom then? are we not trying to get attention? And why? Altruism.
Perhaps, or perhaps not. It would seem to me to be a matter of position and perspective... but this insult is easily thrown at anyone that is getting a lot of media face time... but can the blogosphere really credibly complain about that?
And simultaneously try to inject massive amounts of it's own flak into the system?
Fact of the matter: you wouldn't have heard of her had her son not died in this war... and there are plenty of people that are not going to like that because they don't support the war enough to explain it to themselves, and we really ought to as Americans be able to hear their complaints without maligning them and thereby soiling the right of all of us to do exactly what they are doing.
And I do practice what I preach, I don't call someone a media whore because they want to praise the sacrifice of their child for their country... I'll actually admit quite readily they have done and see no reason to try to discredit their emotions that flow solely from my nation's decision to be at war.
I have no idea about 2000, but she campaigned against Bush in 2004.
I prefer not to be banned, and try to be respectful.
But come on... I think the term "towelhead" there was pretty much racist, yeah?
tenwords might have been banned based on a policy of not allowing too much disturbance by liberal posters, and I think that is a legitimate basis for a web site banning... but that's what it was... not a false accusation of racism... come on.
The comment in question was over the top in that regard. Yes?
Again... I'm not questioning the decision to ban, I don't think there is a high standard for that... but if you are answering her question... it's not because she introduced the idea of racism... is it?
The only person "using her sons death" to their advantage is her.
I think she needs to knock it off.
It would seem even John Kerry voted for Bush in 2004. How does one prove that?
whether blogs are media whoredom or not is pretty irrelevant unless you're going to follow a non sequitur with a tu quoque.
"And Mrs. Sheehan is, most difinitely, rather smartly utilizing the media to the fullest advantage to get out her message."
If the left would stick to simply calling Michelle Malkin a media whore, I think she would be really delighted.
What they actually call I can't repeat here. So the sanctimonious claptrap really does not cut it.
the context I read that was a further attempt to discredit her.
Personally, I don't care who she voted for, and I'm sincere in my point of assuming she has always been a liberal.
My point is based on that assumption.
"media whore" is a useless term, it is nothing but a form of "shut up"... I find it especially non-credible coming from we who love not to shut up.
If Ms. Sheehan is a "media whore", than so is George W. Bush, because he also utilizes the media to the fullest advantage to get his message out. Thus, the term is either slanderous or useless.
...Sheehan's not a media whore and you know it. The only thing she has left after the death of her son is to try and ensure that his death was not in vain. That is what this is all about. Whether she is being naive, simply wrong, or perfectly right, she doesn't deserve this treatment. Why don't you treat her the way you know you would if someone were doing the same thing to President Clinton?
Erick has apologized for "media whore," at least in a way. Sometimes we make mistakes, and that's fine. But to come in after the fact and try to justify this just to "see if it will fly" really irritates.
rugged as well.
so what can I say. I am agreeing there is no need for this term.
My personal right to continue to make this objection is rooted in the fact that I am in fact consistent. I don't think the term serves much use, nor do worse slurs, in general, though there are some exceptions to such rules.
But I am being consistent.
To defend using the term in this case based on it's innappropriate use elsewhere is not particularly consistent, because you already grant it's innapropriate.
I think very litle of Ms. Malking, but I assure you everything I've ever called her could be repeated here.
Okay. But let's not pretend that the media coverage is somehow an unintended byproduct of this affair.
Rather, it's the point.
to call Terri Schiavo's parents "media whores"? Why or why not?
The man responsible for unleashing Kos upon the country. Talk about a troubled conscience.
In any case, this....
....adding "in the form of a grieving mother", is quite beyond any line of decency
....is a complete non sequitur. Unless, of course, you believe that maternal grief confers blanket immunity in all things. This would be a surprise to Clytemnestra.
Nice "they do it too" excuse as well. Raising the bar, Jerome?
that is a good analog.
the fact that the definition of "media whore" (which is a funny idea, wonder when it will hit the Oxford Dictionary) applies makes little difference.
Yeah, a slur has a definition and it applies! That's not really a justification for using the slur. Not in my book anyway.
Better to stick to the point.
If you say so, chief. Clearly that which you believe is ipso facto apprehended by me as fact.
The only thing she has left after the death of her son is to try and ensure that his death was not in vain.
And to attack Israel, of course.
of anyone that just happens to wander in front of a TV camera or that organizes an event designed to bring those cameras. We'd have to extend "media whore" to the entire political involved community.
That we can follow you to your house, harass and threaten your family, and try to destroy your livelihood for kicks?
I mean, given this:
I don't think the people attacking Erick are out of line at all. Erick Erickson deserves a very public and personal humiliation.
Email me your address. I've got thousands of unemployed relatives who'd love to camp on your doorstep and protest your continued existence.
I once thought coexistence with the Left was possible, that we could have a debate in which words occassionally flew, but at the end, walk away, knowing one side or the other would win, but both were doing what they were doing out of good intentions if nothing else.
No longer.
You're more or less collectively filth. I'm sure there are exceptions, but this is garbage.
In a different context; if the worst thing the liberal-left said about George Bush was that he is a media whore, the level of civic discourse in this country would be vastly elevated.
So I don't feel you are making as clever a point as you think you are.
The exasperating thing is that all this moralistic tutt-tutting is coming from the side which has been displaying a psychotic hatred of Bush and the Republicans for years. Take a quick glance at the comment threads as Atrios or pretty much any left wing blog.
Clean up your own sides language before you presume to drop in and lecture us.
called them that.
If anything Randall Terry who acted as spokesman for the Schiavos at times was and is a media whore.
you exercise with this post.
Wikpedia of course is a joke. The common usage on the Left for the phrase "media whore" is persons in the Media who whore themselves in the role as the press.
What you would want to call Ms. Sheehan, and to what effect, God only knows, is Media ATTENTION Whore. Now you are an intelligent person and must know this. Why you choose to play the fool on this Gawd only knows.
But that is beside the point. For someone who purports to rail against ad hominem attacks, why in the world would you embrace this one? You are better than this. This will sound trite to most, but you know I value your friendship, and I write as a friend here, this is beneath you.
Ms. Sheehan can be critiqued without this type of attack. What is your purpose? Because your effect is negative -- to yourself. You have earned a gread deal of respect from all sides of the political spectrum. Justly earned I think. But this stands as a stain on you. Particularly after Erick disavowed this use.
Reconsider this decision.
Of course I don't expect a woman who was always a leftist to suddenly decide the Iraq War was a Peachy-Keen Idea™ once her son comes home in a body bag. That's not what this is about.
What it is about is about her using her status as a bereaved mother as a platform from which to spout incandescently stupid fringe-left talking points. That is odious grandstanding.
sorry but you do realize this is a lame argument don't you?
how can we criticise someone on the basis of successfully getting their heartfelt message to the press.
we try every day!
... Clinton? Carter?
Or for that matter, Reagan? Nixon? every president that's ever lived?
Let's just face the fact that psychotic hatred is a big problem.
So why would you know what my intent is here. This is a wonderful example of a pointless ad hominem attack that is of the worst kind - an ignorant one.
Ignorant meaning without knowledge, not stupid.
I had not thought of that... decent point about the rhetoric though.
Still... it's wrong that Erick deserves harassment, period. Criticism, sure? Rhetoric of the same level... perhaps. Threats and harassment, of course not.
I disagree a lot with Erick deserving the result.
However, I think his point on the phrase is that he objects to equating her grief to "media whoredom"... that is, as if when we see her grief we should assume it's not real, and all she wants is attention.
That is in fact distinct from saying she wants attention but her grief is left unmolested.
drop by a FreeRepublic thread on Clinton. Wow.
And, as you note, this is nothing new, as evidenced by this cheery campaign ditty:
Who rules us with an iron rod?
Who moves at Satan's beck and nod?
Who heeds not man,
Who heeds not God?
Van Buren, Van Buren!
you can no better make your sweeping generalizations today than yesterday.
I'll make the sweeping generalizations I'd like, but I'd appreciate a point to the comment of yesterday you find so offensive.
I'm a fellow American.
You said you "used to feel" a certain way, that is the yesterday of which I speak.
Put more simply... I appreciate your former perspective... don't be rash in letting the extremists change it... it plays right into their hands.
But that is off topic.
But assuming what you say is true, why spring to the defence of this woman who has decided to jump into the political arena with both feet, while trying to use her son's death as both a shield and a weapon? And whose "arguments" are vile, disgusting, and dishonest.
the alternate is for her to protest without reference to her son's death.
would that be better? wouldn't in that case a charge be "she really only feels this way because of a peronsal loss".
But also, when you go to war you can expect some parents to feel this way who are also parents of dead children... it's really par for the course, I don't know how one can expect different.
The contrary expectation is that I expect many parents to be especially proud and especially sensitive to criticisms of the war... these are natural results of war, I think, and a natural if troublesome part of the debate.
But it is life and death, so "troublesome" perspectives and people are, really, not wholly out of place... probably, more likely, they are needed to remind the rest of us of all the stakes.
But I know that I would not be allowed to post on your site. How about If Kos opens things up and allows all the "wingnuts" to post over there?
Sure, Erick can't hide from the public consequences of his opinion. People are free to repeat what he said, and if people deem it morally repugnant, then they'll think less of Erick, and if they happen to agree with him, then they'll think more of him.
But that doesn't mean personal harassment is deserved, and I'd like to think you didn't think your comment through fully because you did seem to imply this. This sort of thing happens to outspoken people on both sides, but that doesn't make it right, and as a leader of a blogging community, I think it's your job to help draw the line.
I would expect no less from the leaders of RedState if some of the commenters here started harassing you at home, etc.
It's almost as if I didn't refer to that in the post proper. Anyway, sorry for not using the phrase the way you folkses do. Not like it was thus misunderstood.
As for the purported needlessness of this manner of critique of Sheehan -- as if this were even close to the worst she's faced -- I fail to see how her status confers an immunity upon her.
... a parent that supports the war may well come out very emotionally against all criticism of the war as if it cheapens their child's life. To me... I may see that and think this really illustrates why the war is wrong, putting them in the difficult position of HAVING to KNOW the war was good, to avoid an even more painful grief.
I would say a conservative may look at Sheehan and say, "your son died so you could have free speech"... and that would be a sharp but fair approach.
The "media whore" approach (now retracted by Erick, but still under debate here) is to say, "shut up shut up shut up", and that is a different thing! Interpreting events is fair. "Shut up" is, in matters like this, matters of public debate, a debate we all take part in here, well, I think it's unamerican.
if you mean me specifically, my defense is pretty limited to saying calling her a "media whore" is a poor way to comment on the issue.
Beyond that my defense is merely the right to free speech, and insofar as I want to not be a hypocrite I find an analog in the parents that are hypersensitive against criticism of the war because of their own losses... I disagree with them, but I would never see the use of calling them a "media whore" for taking their message to the airwaves. And I have seen such parents.
in a way my objection to the language Erick used could be put in terms of tacitus.org posting standards.
I was suprised to see this particular defense from trevino of all conservatives.
In which case she should be commended.
Or she is wrong. In which case she should be condemned. And "media whore" is not too strong a term of condemnation.
Since she is wrong, it is appropriate to condem her.
The fact that she seeks to exploit her sons death to further her political ends, and hopes to also use it to shield herelf from criticism, makes her somewhat more reprehensible,
reason my posts are not showing.
What I've been trying to say is why the left is ignoring Ms. Sheehans hypocrisy? She had quite a different story back in 2004.
something in the "Subject" box.
It's not ignorant to infer sincerity, or lack thereof, from the available data, Armando. Given that Ms. Sheehan has of late become one of the Kossacks' sacred cows, it's fair to reason that you have an interest in abjuring trevino's evisceration of said bovine apart from any non-partisan concern you might have, as a friend, for his credibility and reputation.
To put it another way: if it looks like you are posturing, and it smells like you are posturing, then I judge you probably are posturing. Accuse me of ignorance if it makes you feel better.
As a friendly piece of advice, hit the preview key before commenting. We've all been burned by just hitting "post" before.
What point, exactly, are you trying to make, here?
Are you trying to tell me that what she's doing isn't odious grandstanding?
Or are you trying to tell me that she has no choice but to engage in odious grandstanding?
Erick a new one, if they disagree.
I am not opposed to sending non threatening emails-the "I think you are wrong and here's why" type not the "you are evil and hope somebody murders your family" type.
But it crosses a huge line to call somebody at home and to post phone numbers and the like on the internet and encourage others to do the same.
she has a right to make her statements.
The fact that people are only listening to her because her son died is a characteristic of listeners that are good at selective deafness, through which her situation breaks.
But I agree with you nevertheless about the right to condemn her by those that judge her points as without merit. But we disagree on "media whore" being a fitting condemnation.
she has the right to make her statement and relate her anecdotes and convey the pain of her situation all she wants.
And if she does that... she will be in a position where she can be accused of grandstanding.
But fwiw, I would prefer to hear that she is guilty of "odious grandstanding" than hear that her grief is not real and she is really only a media whore.
I'm pretty sure her grief for her son is real, and that she's a media whore. FWIW.
Seems the wikipedia definition would apply to Terri Schiavo's parents and to most parents/relatives of missing/murdered/sexually abused children. All want media attention and all want to use that attention to further self-centered (in a strict sense) interests, as well as, to impact wider policies. The Schiavo's wanted to have their daughter and they expressed concerns about what Terri's death said about our society and our laws. Radical, as well as not so radical, prolife groups FLOCKED to them and performed for the cameras. Randall Terry was especially clownish.
Parents of lost/abused/murdered kids also want media attention to help find their kids or to find and punish the animal who hurt their child. Many, if not most, also end up talking about policy issues. The proper punishment for molesters is a popular topic. It's not unusual to see some guy with 2 teeth and a John Deere cap holding forth on some fine point of criminal law. He has become, tragically, an instant expert.
Personally, I cannot refer to any of these people as 'media whores,' even though, as in the Schiavo case, I might strenuously disagree with their position. I respect their position and I give deference to them due to their circumstances. It was interesting to me that, during the Schiavo circus, the right attacked her husband in the most scurrilous fashion. But the parents got a free ride, even though there were grounds to criticize, very little criticism of the parents was heard.
Now comes Cindy Sheehan, who, imo, seems a lot like some of these other 'media whores' I identified above. Does she have an agenda? No doubt. Does she have a right to have it? Sure, she does -- and I'm sure you all agree. But where does this rightwing inclination to brutalize her come from? (Sort of looks like it comes from insecurity born of the shifting sands of Bush's war.) In my book, Cindy Sheehan, has a special dispensation -- as would anyone similarly victimized by the war, whether I disagreed with them or not.
What is baffling to me is that Bush didn't have the wisdom to meet with her immediately. At the beginning, almost no one knew about her or who she was and he could have turned on the ol' W charm, patted her hand, shed a tear, maybe even pray with her, and she might have been at least defused, if not mollified. He might have had to absorb some indignation from her, but he's a big boy -- he made the tough decisions, surely an angry mom isn't going to completely shatter his ego. Yeah, I know he met with her once, but obviously it wasn't enough. Having given the highest sacrifice a mother can give for her country, I think she's due. AT this point, though he's in a no-win situation -- which is, I think, really why the rightwing is so over-wrought.
However, I don't think attacking Cindy Sheehan is going to strengthen your hand.
She does not have a right to make statements which are dishonest.
She does not have a right to make statements which can only give support to our enemies in a time of war.
She does not have a right to use her dead son as a prop in her political theater.
Her points are without merit. This is not a matter of opinion, it is a matter of fact. This ignorant, hateful woman deserves whatever language comes her way, as do all the other deranged people who feel the way she does.
And I tire of the Left today. Au revoir.
There is a tradition among your tribe to run to dKurse and post a "They banned me! ME!!" diary, in which your fellow yard-apes lament the Known Fact that we banned you for your ideology (and not of course for your tiresome repetition of the same garbage over and over again). Please don't disappoint me; I really enjoy reading those things.
Don't fling too much poo at the cage doors, though. Starts to smell worse.
the whore frame means she's paid to give something that is meant to be real, but is really just to get something in return.
what is it?
just attention?
if she could get more attention by praising the war... she would do that instead?
There is something insincere about sex via prostitution... what is insincere about her? She has ideas you don't like. But the attention she wants is for sincere reasons, so her message gets out louder.
The complaint is not what she's trying to do, because we do the same on these blogs and elsewhere, wherever we can, so perhaps it comes from the fact that it's working for her, now, for a bit, after much trouble and time when it got her hardly any attention at all.
media whore - In the area of news reporting, the term is used to describe ideologues who lie and obfuscate for themselves, others, or their cause out of sincere devotion to their beliefs/
You are using youe own meaning of the term, then calling us to task based on it.
It might be more productive if you used the term in the same sense as everyone else is.
While I do think Ms. Sheehan is being used, and I find it hard to reconcile her current comments with those made last year, I think a little perspective is in order. In the interest of full disclosure, I support the war and the President.
Anyway. I cannot imagine how losing a child would affect my judgment. Everyone is different. But remember that Paula Jones (a Democrat) accepted the help of people on the Right who were, I think it can be safely alleged, were "using" her. She accepted the help because it was the only reasonable option she had to seek a legal remedy from Bill Clinton. Similarly, Ms. Sheehan would not have gotten a lot of traction had she refused help from these Lefty groups. If she got brainwashed in the process, I'm not surprised. I believe both Sheehan and Jones are sincere people. They are also both willing tools.
Finally, I don't think Democrats or Republicans are, as a rule, given to writing vile emails. But there are elements in both camps that are capable of that sort of thing, and they are just different sides of the same filthy coin. Of course, my analogy falls apart when you observe that most Republicans including the President acknowledge that Ms. Sheehan is entitled to her grief and her opinion. No one in the party of womens rights, including Clinton and NOW, gave Paula Jones the benefit of the doubt. How do they sleep? You got me.
one, I have to say I don't put much stock in an intellectual analysis of what "media whore" "really" means. Come one. It's not a technical term with a lot of thought put into its design, is it?
Why would I post a comment here rather than a post at dailykos if I wanted to take advantage of it?
It's just me I guess, but I read a certain Red Hot post by someone using your name that made just such an argument I thought. A good post that one IMO.
expressed an admirable sentiment -- "Having known two erstwhile comrades killed in Iraq, I am prepared to cut grieving mothers a great deal of slack. The wrenching-away of a child one has borne, nursed, and raised does not lend itself to rational response. So I am inclined to allow Sheehan her quixotic momenets, and I hope she finds some manner of peace, whatever her politics."
that it means whatever you wish it to mean?
How about extending to us a little of the generousity of spirit you seem so anxxious to extend to Sheehan? Is it really so absolutely inconcievable to you that we are using the term in just this fashion?
Sheesh!
...I find so many of the commentators at Atrios so beyond help I don't bother to jump into the fray; they're a lost cause. RedState in leftyland has a rep as more evenhanded than many of the other popular righty blogs, albeit perhaps over-moderated (but then, hey, Kos went through one day and sans warning banned anyone espousing moonbat conspiracy theories, so who's to say?). I do comment on occasion on Daily Kos, and that does include attempting to steer others toward the higher road when I see the need.
So far as my alleged "psychotic hatred" of Bush (I know you weren't addressing me specifically, but it seemed a blanket statement aimed toward lefties): please, I have no such feelings for anyone. Not that I would call myself "content" with Mr. Bush's job performance, but to say the left has this psychotic hatred toward Bush is as inaccurate as stating the whole right has a psychotic hatred toward the Clintons.
new person here... vet..medical discharge 1972...Independent...voted in 2004 State candidates three parties...did not vote for Bush or Kerry...If Mrs. Sheehan is a "whore"..does that make the cited Retired Special forces SGT Stan Goff of VFP her "pimp"? Anyone here want to call a retired Special Forces SGT a "Pimp" to his face. Why is it assumed that because she is a woman of conviction she is being "used" or "brainwashed"?
Regardless of her view, it takes courage to put yourself under national scrutiny. I am wating for a mother of a dead troop to stand up in the manner of Mrs. Sheehan. The Denver VA PTSD program is standing room only now because of Iraqi vets. I am waiting for a national group Iraq Veterans for the War or Families of Iraq troops who died for the WAR..are there such groups? If so could you post a link?
I have taken it to mean people that write biased articles that are supposed to be objective, to further their career (get paid for it).
That's what it means to me.
Insincerity is part of it, like the fake "love" you get from a whore, if you pay.
But Erick has apologized for that term... and that's a good idea.
"Odious self promotion" was offered as an alternate. Debate about that would be substantive, whereas debate about the precise technical meaning of "media whore" lowers us all in my opinion.
You want to stick around, at least quote Erick correctly. This is your warning.
Actually, I'd call him anything that was appropriate. As no one called anyone a whore, it does not follow that he's a pimp.
Long day.
Part of me is inclined to note that like Ms Sheehan, I can change my mind.
But the truth is that I haven't changed my mind, and there's not really a contradiction here. Even if I am inclined to allow her her quixotic moments, it doe

harassment of Erick at work or at home. Frankly, anyone who could be traced and caught should be arrested in my opinion.